Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Wednesdays at My House-The Office


Time to see my dirty laundry ladies or rather my dirty office. Yes, I took this picture of my office just this morning. Not only is it the one room I don't have fully unpacked from our move last June, it's where I stuff everything I don't know what to do with. It's also the place where I hide things when company is coming over. The problem is I don't seem to go back in there and bring the "stuff" back out after the company leaves. So the room just gets messier and messier. And I NEED to use this room! It's supposed to be our office and it's supposed to double as our guest room. Right now it's just our garbage room!!! It's embarrassing, it's stressful and I'm done with this room hanging over my head! I'm ready to take care of this "issue". Who's with me?

Yes, I'm mad as hell (at myself) and I'm not going to take it (from myself) ANYMORE!!!!! I am committing to cleaning this room up so we can actually use it! I am publicly committing to spending at least 30 minutes in there a day until it's cleaned up and ready for use. I will post pictures of my progress on Wednesdays. I have no idea how long it will take so be patient with me.

The first step is admitting you have a problem so.......I admit it! I'm a Clutter Bug and I'm ready to unburden myself. After the office we will move on to other pockets of clutter around my house..........stay tuned...........

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Traditional Tuesdays-Out With the White!


Like I blogged last Tuesday, we are attempting to follow the guidelines of eating outlined by the Weston A. Price Foundation (WAPF) in order to be healthier and for DH and I to lose weight. Last week I also said I would blog and update on our progress on Tuesdays. This way of eating is also called "Traditional Foods" which is why I titled the blog "Traditional Tuesdays".

Step One: I went through our pantry and threw away all the heavily processed foods. The picture above is my pantry all cleaned out and ready for nutritious foods! Also I poured an almost FULL container of white sugar down the drain. It was hard to do because it was a 5 lb box but I think even though it's a waste of money getting rid of that crap is a deposit in the "bank" of our health. And how much does white sugar cost, really? Couple of bucks?

I did keep our white flour but it is unbleached and WAPF is okay with very limited use of white, unbleached flour. I used it this week only to coat some grass-fed stew meat this week. (Recipe at the bottom of this post)

I kept the white rice but I mixed it with brown rice this week and once it's gone I will not be buying white rice anymore. The kids don't seem to notice so far.

We got our pork order last Saturday. We ordered a 1/2 a hog from a local farmer. Of course after I stuffed our freezer full of yummy pork products I read in "Nourishing Traditions" that pork is not so good for you even if it's naturally raised. According to Sally Fallon (author of Nourishing Traditions and president of WAPF) when people consume pork their blood chemistry is altered for a few hours afterward. However, she didn't elaborate how it's altered or how that's bad. So I think we will continue to enjoy pork a couple of times a week. If we are not losing weight or don't feel well maybe we will try to eliminate pork and see what happens. It's DH's favorite kind of meat so I hope we can still enjoy it in moderation!

Weight loss update: DH is finishing up a 5-day cleansing fast to "clean out" his personal "pantry". I am going to join him in a liquids only fast tomorrow (his last day). Yesterday I started eating every 2 hours and I found my cravings for sweets were almost zero! It's hard to eat that often but I just ate a little bit to keep my blood sugar even. It seemed to be a good thing for me! I didn't really concentrate on what I was eating (except limited sugar and white carbs) but just how often I was eating and limiting the amount. We'll see...........Also, DH and I FINALLY opened up the Wii Fit that he bought us for Christmas. We had a lot of fun working out together on Sunday. We plan to exercise together 2-3 days a week and on our own a couple of other days a week.

Yummy Simple Stew

2 Tbs of flour
salt and pepper
2 lbs of grass-fed stew meat
2 Tbs olive oil
1 yellow onion chopped
2 or more cloves of garlic minced
1 cup beef broth
water
2 pieces of thick, uncured bacon
carrots sliced or use baby carrots whole
tri-colored potatoes (purple, red and white) quartered

Put the flour, 1 t. salt and 1/2 t. pepper in a ziploc type bag. Put stew meat in a several pieces at a time, shake to coat with flour. Heat olive oil in a frying pan and sear meat on all sides. Place meat in large pot. Add beef broth, onions and garlic. Add water until it reaches just covers meat. Add additional salt and pepper to taste. Bring to a boil uncovered and then reduce to a simmer. Chop bacon into pieces and fry in a pan until as crisp as you like it. Put bacon pieces with the bacon grease into the pot. Simmer on low for 30 minutes and then add carrots and potatoes. Simmer for an additional 20-30 minutes just until carrots and potatoes are soft. Serve with hearty sprouted grain bread and butter.

Monday, February 23, 2009

Monday Morning Random Fact

I danced the "Electric Slide" only once in my life. I was 17 and it was at a dance in Washington DC during a conference for "Young Leaders".

Your turn..........

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Nourishing Tuesday

It's time to get serious. About what? My family's diet. We have pockets of healthy eating and pockets of not-so-healthy eating and then pockets of terrible eating (fast food city). It's been a rough 18 months (having a baby and then moving TWICE) but we are almost out of crisis mode now and it's time to shape up.........literally!!! I now have in my hot little hands two books that I hope will be our salvation in the way of eating. The first is "Nourishing Traditions" by Sally Fallon and "Eat Fat Lose Fat" by Dr. Mary Enig and Sally Fallon.

We are embarking on a new way of eating and looking at food. It's based on the findings of Dr. Weston Price a dentist who in the 1930's studied the different diets and health of 14 indigenous cultures around the world and compared them with the diets and health of industrialized people groups. What he found was that the indigenous people were very healthy. Being a dentist the first thing he noticed were their teeth, straight and free from cavities or gum disease. Interesting find in people who had never seen a toothbrush or visited a dentist. Dr. Price also found these people were free from chronic disease and mental illness. They were robust and very active. They had low rates of birth defects and were very fertile!

Dr. Price found the diets of the indigenous people had some significant differences in diet from their more industrialized contemporaries and he believed that is why they were so healthy.

"Almost without exception, the groups he studied ate liberally of seafood or other animal proteins and fats in the form of organ meats and dairy products; they valued animal fats as absolutely necessary to good health; and the ate fats, meats, fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, seeds and whole grains in their whole, unrefined state. All primitive diets contained some raw foods, of both animal and vegetable origin."
Sally Fallon, Nourishing Traditions.

The main difference between primitive cultures and modern diets and in health of the people was the processing of their food. Even in the 30's food was becoming more and more processed and thus less nutritious! And good health was sacrificed each time people discovered a new way refine food. Fast forward to 2009, modern America is fat and plagued with chronic disease. My husband and I are fat and plagued with health issues that could easily turn into chronic diseases. My oldest, Bear has autism that may have been caused but at the very least exacerbated by a diet lacking in nutrients. My second son, Monkey, struggles with hyperactivity and serious mood swings. So far my daughter seems to be healthy but I assume her health will suffer also if we don't make some changes.

I have been dabbling in this way of eating for months now however, I'm ready to dive in and quickly get us fully on board with the diet commonly called "Traditional Foods". Our diet will be rich in animal fats from pastured animals, vegetables, fruit, raw dairy and sprouted grains. We will also be eating "fermented foods" to help with digestion and the fermentation process actually enhances the nutritional content of foods. There's also a lot of use of coconut oil. According to Fallon, Enig and the Weston A. Price Foundation coconut oil is like liquid gold for our health. In a nutshell what we will be trying to eat is foods as close to nature as we can get them. Foods grown, fed and harvested as God intended. Traditional Foods more sense to me than anything I've ever read on food, diet and nutrition. Also, the only time I was ever successful in losing a large amount of weight (60 lbs) I was eating a diet close to this one. I was eating lots of protein, sprouted grains, very limited sugar and tons of fruits and veges. My personal experience lines up with Traditional Foods as well.

My hopes for this diet are that Husband and I will lose a significant amount of weight. We both have approximately 100 pounds each to lose. I am also hoping my mood swings will even out and my PMS will improve. For Husband I am hoping to greatly improve if not cure his IBS (Irritable Bowl Syndrome). I am expecting both of our bad cholesterol levels to go down and our good cholesterol levels to go up. Yes, we both have high cholesterol already in our 30's!!!!! I want to improve Bear's autistic symptoms, asthma and other environmental allergies he has. I expect Monkey's mood swings will even out and his hyperactivity to improve. For Baby Girl, I just want her to continue growing and thriving.

My concerns for this diet are: First off, I'm a picky eater as is Bear. I am NOT a fan of fermented anything except yogurt. Also, there are a lot of "organ meats" on this diet. Loaded with nutrition but YUCK! I'm hoping there are a lot of ways to consume organ meats in a way that you don't know you are consuming them. Second is cost. The cheapest I've found raw milk is $5.00 for a HALF gallon. Yep, I said 5 bucks for just a HALF gallon! Grass fed beef and free-range chicken is also extremely costly. However, I hope that not spending as much on crackers, chips, ice cream and other nutritionally void foods will balance it out a bit. We have saved money to purchase a deep freezer and I'm in the process of purchasing a 1/2 a hog. If we buy meat in large quantities it is easier on the wallet. However, bottom line if we want to eat this way we will have to make some sacrifices in our budget. Finally, I'm worried that I won't follow through with this. The only thing consistent about me is the fact that I'm inconsistent. This diet will take a lot of time and energy and I'm afraid I will get easily distracted and we will be back to hot dogs and chicken nuggets because it's easy and convenient. It will help that Husband LOVES the principals of Traditional Foods and is fully supportive of this change in our lives.

To begin our full transition I'm reading the books mentioned above. Nourishing Traditions is really a cookbook with a long intro. The educational portion is only 70 pages so I should be able to whip through it. Eat Fat Lose Fat is also short, about 150 pages of info with 100+ pages of recipes. In the meantime Husband and I will complete a 5 day fast (partial fast for me as I'm still breastfeeding) beginning in the next couple of days. We are waiting to start the fast on supplements to arrive by mail. This fasting program is one we've completed before from Blessed Herbs and it was a good experience. We felt great once we were done. We want to "clean our bodies out" and get ready for good health!

Wish us luck in making this transition quickly! I plan to blog about our progress with Traditional Foods on Tuesdays. Including recipes we fall in love with!

Monday, February 16, 2009

Monday Morning Random Fact

Today's Random Fact: I have always wanted to be 36 years old. And today I am!!!! Whoo hoo!

A note about the above random fact: It's funny that I have opinions about ages not because of what it might mean to be that old or young but just the number itself. I'm not superstitious about numbers or certain ages, I just like some numbers and do not like others. How can I "like" or "dislike" a number? I don't know, I'm weird. I hated being 35, it's an ugly number. I always dreaded that birthday and I'm so glad I'm not 35 anymore! I liked 34, loved being 30 and 24 was an awesome number to be. One might think I like even numbers best however, I loved being 29 and 19 was my most favorite age I've been so far. I actually got a bit depressed when I turned 20. My parents threw me an "Over the Hill" party to make me laugh, which it did cheer me up but I still didn't like being 20 and to this day I still miss being 19.

I'm afraid that I will get really bummed next year because 37 is a number I think is so ugly. Uglier than 35. I don't want to be 37 at all, that number is hideous! Maybe I'll just be 38 for 2 years or stay 36 an extra year. Now here's the weirdest of all, I can't wait to be in my 40's!!! I'm looking forward to that entire decade (the 40's)!!! They are all pretty numbers because I like the number 4. Ya'll can throw me a HUGE party when I turn 4o because I will be happy to be all of the ages from 40-49. I don't really have a strong feeling about 50.........

It's not just ages. I like certain dates better than others. I love my birthdate 02-16-1973. My kids birthdays are good. Jesse's is 01-22-2000 but I like the 21st better. I was induced on the 21st but didn't deliver him until the 22nd. Maybe that's why I like the 21st better?? Joshua's birthdate is great 01-28-2002. Love it! Alita's is good, 05-04-2007, until my husband pointed out that we could have scheduled the c-section for the 6th and then her birthday would have been 05-06-07. How cool would that have been?

I admitted all this to my husband last night and he said to me, "I didn't know you were autistic too Abby." Maybe I am. Okay, I think I've rambled on about ages and dates long enough. I have probably bored you, sorry. Please post more random facts about yourselves. I love reading them!!!!

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Yeah, What She Said.............

I love this article about the situation created by the famous Octuplets mom, Nadya Suleman. It's exactly what I think about it and am not able to articulate so well.

http://communities.canada.com/vancouversun/blogs/socialstudies/archive/2009/02/11/nadya-suleman-octomom-just-doing-what-comes-unnaturally.aspx


Finally SOMEONE said it plain and simple: What Ms. Suleman and her infertility doctor did was wrong! Yes, we all need to quickly move on past the "blame game" for the babies sake but I think it's important to stop for just a minute and pass judgement in this situation as a society. Why? So that maybe, just maybe laws will be passed preventing this from happening again.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Thursday Morning Spiritual Reflections

It just not as easy as I thought it was going to be. On Jan 1, of this year I selected 2 Corinthians 4:7 to be my "verse of the year". "But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us." 2 Corinthians 4:7 Actually, the verse chose me or God chose it for me. This is probably my favorite verse of all time but God has really brought it to my mind lately and is showing ways He wants to transform me through it. Mostly, when I read this verse I feel His Spirit leading me to praise Him when my human weakness shows through. Praise Him that I am such a mess and need His perfection. Keeping my eyes on the Creator and my need for the Creator rather than the Created which is full of cracks, marks and holes and crumbles easily.

When I first thought about this idea of praising God for my failures at the beginning of this year such a load was lifted off my shoulders. I felt wonderful at first not to beat myself up again when I fail. Turning my attention to God and His holiness is a much better way to spend my thought life. Self-mental abuse is never productive. I'm not talking about thinking through my mistakes and deciding where to make changes. I'm talking about dwelling on my mistakes and telling myself what a lousy wife, mother, human being, etc I am for making them over and over. However, this is not so easy to do. When I start spiraling down into self hatred and I remember this verse and try to lift my eyes up instead of punching myself of inward I find it hard to do. I find that it feels good to be bad to myself and this is very surprising. What purpose does this self-abuse serve? I will have to think more on this and pray that God will give me insights and His wisdom. I don't want to hurt myself anymore. The world inflicts enough pain on me I don't need to add to it.

That's what I'm thinking about, spiritually speaking, this week................

Monday, February 9, 2009

Monday Morning Random Fact

I was a HUGE Bon Jovi fan in High School. They were probably my favorite band.

Your turn........

Friday, February 6, 2009

Bioethics

YOU HAVE 6 CHILDREN, NO PARTNER, NO INCOME AND YOU PURPOSELY GOT PREGNANT AGAIN!!!!!! AND BY INVITRO FERTILIZATION NO LESS!!!!!!

Yes, I am outraged by the decisions made by, Nadya Suleman, the mother of the new octouplets. Her lack of intelligent decision making and self-control is unfathomable. The fact that her 7th pregnancy produced EIGHT BABIES instead of just one and that having octuplets was not her intention doesn't matter. Even if the pregnancy had produced only ONE baby this is completely foolish behavior. I love children too, I want dozens too but I can't afford them emotionally, mentally or financially and MY HUSBAND HAS A REALLY GOOD JOB!

Honestly, I don't think all the fault of this mess lies with Ms. Suleman. The same doc knocked her up all 7 times. I want that fertility doctor's head on a platter, or better yet, something else..........I know, I know, it's not a doctor's place to "judge" a patient's choices. But come on, where is the buck going to stop then??? Somebody should have stopped her, refused to mediacally impregnate her again and gotten her some good psychiatric care.

This is a terrible example of the cost when we live in a society where the rights of the one outweigh the good of society as a whole. We are going to "pay" for these children in more ways than one. I heard she reported to the media that she has never taken welfare and doesn't plan to now. She also said in an interview with Ann Curry of MSNBC, "When I'm done with my schooling I know I'll be able to afford them." What is she going to school for, How To Marry a Millionaire? No, she's going to school to be, get ready for it, A PSYCHOLOGIST! I can barely even restrain myself from commenting just on her chosen vocation but I hold back......back to just the financial aspect, even if she makes top dollar in that field FOURTEEN MOUTHS TO FEED, FOURTEEN BACKS TO CLOTHE AND A ROOF OVER THEIR FOURTEEN HEADS is going to cost some serious cash. Much more than the $125,000 a top therapist could make. And then there's the issue of how she is going to pay for them in the meantime while she's in school. I'm willing to bet dollars to donuts we will see her applying for Food Stamps soon. Of course unless she gets the 2 million dollars she's asking for to sell her story. On second thought, how far would 2 million go with FOURTEEN KIDS????? It's asinine to say that we, the people, are not going to "pay" for her children. In some way shape or form WE will pay, big!

In her first TV interview she said she is a good mom because she loves her children becauase, “I'm providing myself to my children. I'm loving them unconditionally, accepting them unconditionally,” she told Ann Curry of MSNBC. “Everything I do, I'll stop my life for them and be present with them. And hold them. And be with them. And how many parents do that?" Well, most of us do, don't we? She makes it sound like she is the only good parent in this world who provides emotional stability for her children. Many parents provide physical affection, unconditional love and are "present" with their children. MOST parents do not purposely continue to add children to their family risking their children's physical health and causing the family to live in poverty. A hug is not a hot meal. And how many hugs can she give 14 children in a day? I'm only awake for 16 hours, how could she be "present" with 14 kids with only 16-17 hours in a day?

I heard her say in the interview that she is being judged more harshly because she is a single mom. HELL YES! Choosing to be a single parent of so many children is totally irresponsible. Plain and simple. I'm sorry, I know that's not PC, (Thanks to Murphy Brown), but it's takes TWO to raise that many children. Actually, it will take MORE than two to raise all those children. Although I would be outraged if a couple without any income having a 7th child on purpose, a single mom doing it IS worse because the resources are cut by half.

I'm so frustrated about the whole thing I can't type anymore. Just because we "can" do something, doesn't mean that we "should". My prayers will be with those 14 children.

Monday, February 2, 2009

Monday Morning Random Fact

Every Monday morning I am going to post a "Random Fact" about myself. This idea is inspired by the "25 Random Facts About Me" from Facebook. I'm enjoying reading about all my friends quirks, likes, dislikes and lives in general. Also, after I posted my "25 Random Facts" on Facebook I came up with other things I would have included in the list.

If you read my Monday Morning Random Fact I encourage you to post a random fact about yourself in my comments section! Come on', it's fun to learn things about others, even others you may not know. People are strange, colorful, imaginative creatures with interesting and intricate personalities. This is a celebration of the person God made each of us to be!

Today's Random Fact:
I am afraid to look at myself in a mirror in the dark. I think the fear comes from the "Haunted House" ride at Disneyland.....the part where you look in a mirror and there is a ghost in your car with you. Totally irrational I know and I can't believe it still effects me at age 35!!!!

Okay, now it's your turn.............